The Guy's Perspective on Cheating

Why do men cheat? Why do men get caught cheating more often than women? Why do men claim they could never be with a girl if he knew he cheated on her? These questions all have simple answers and also weird rationale. Today we'll get into the murky waters of one night stands and the guy's perspective on cheating. For the females viewpoint, be sure to visit the talented Lauren Zapata's blog at www.laurenzapata.wordpress.com.

Men can be dogs, plain and simple. Men can be irrational, horny ass dogs. Men say things like, "Baby, I just had sex with her but I make love to you." Surprisingly, men don't like explanations like that coming from their girlfriends. Here's how it happens for guys...Guy is drunk walking home, sees a girl that is going in the same direction and tries having sex with her. Or, guy falls down in a parking lot, the attendant asks if he's okay, he then tries having sex with her. Guy goes to the store to buy groceries, asks a lady if she needs help lifting a bag of dog food, she says yes, he thinks that his chance to bone her.

It's simple, unprovoked and most importantly, no emotional connection. Truthfully, a guy never wants to see a girl he cheated with ever again or any girl he sleeps with and isn't attracted to for that matter. Sometimes guys go out looking to get into trouble but mostly its due to being around a pretty girl using bad judgement or being around an ugly girl highly intoxicated.

Not only does he sleep with that ugly hillbilly, but he gets caught in the act. A lot of women don't understand how their boyfriends could cheat on them with such an unattractive girl; just reread the previous two paragraphs. But how do they get caught? Here's how...girlfriend wants to go to a bar, guy says no, she wonders why, he makes up some stupid excuse like the air smells funny, they walk by the restaurant and the girl comes out and says hello, now the girlfriend expects something. Next scenario, the girl goes through the guys phone and reads a very telltale text like, "Baby last night was amazing...I love whip cream now lol", when he told his girl that he was at work late or the guy leaves his Facebook account open and his girl sees messages and chats with other girls or veered yet, the guy gets caught at his own place thinking his girl was going to be elsewhere.

Guys basically tell on themselves and are not clever enough creating stories to cover their tracks, something women are great at. Women will introduce her boyfriend to the guy she cheated on him with and will act as if nothing ever happened, how cold-hearted!

Many men claim that they couldn't stay in a relationship with an unfaithful female partner but there's two sides to that story. Either it's true and the guy will threaten to hurt a girl if he finds out she cheated on him because some men are psychos. I think men have this huge problem with wanting to control women that they do and say stupid things, trying to scare a woman to stay with him. On the other hand its rubbish. Some guys will stick with a girl no matter what! When men fall, they fall hard. Guys like this I truly feel sorry for and I think that's why most men try to hide their emotions.

It is true there is a double standard and guys use this one to their advantage. Accusing women of being whores if they sleep around but getting respect if they do it. Men usually don't worry about letting his girl hang around other guys, as long as they aren't sleeping around. Men can't handle the physical aspect of cheating, they can deal with the emotional aspect of it.

Interview Tips from Everest College

Most of these tips would seem like common sense to many. I guess Everest College wants to wow their future students by showing them that they have insight on landing that dream job! After reading these tips by Everest College, I wonder how I ever was able to find employment.

1. Arrive on time! If you're unable to get to arrive on time, try to at least be no longer than five minutes late. Usually employers will give employees a five minute cushion without any negative repercussions, but remember, you're not employed yet.

2. Give them your real name, no nicknames. This include rap names, middle names or your Spike Lee name. Jesus is Ray Allen's Spike Lee name, we all have one, mine is Squeeze. Also no aliases, that means don;t give them the name that you give to the police.

3. Bring a pencil and sharpener. Pens may run out of ink, forcing you to scribble tirelessly in circles on the side of the job application trying to get those BIC pens to work. We recommend the sharpeners because previously pointed pencils may break while being in your pocket. I mean how else would you carry a pencil to an interview?

4. Bring two forms of identification, such as a passport application and a bill with your name and CURRENT address. For illegals, just have the utmost confidence that they don't ask for id or that your fakes check out!

5. Use correct grammar and make sure to enunciate. It's very important to make sure that the person interviewing you knows when one sentence stops and another starts. We suggest saying the word period to end sentences that the interviewer may be unaware you're going to end. Example: "I'm the best person for this job period" And it gives you swag!

6. Be sure to tell them you graduated from Everest College and that dream job as accountant, assistant, manager or even CEO will be yours! With Everest, you're on the fast track!