Rules of the Game: Pt. 2

This is part two of yesterday's blog. We'll examine the do's and don'ts for guys. Enjoy!

Do's for Guy's:

1. Compliment Sincerely

-Ladies do love attention, and they like when guy's notice the small things. Maybe her hair is pulled back in a bun, maybe her nails and toenails were just done or maybe she's wearing a new dress. Whatever it is, women love when guys notice the small details, especially since they go through two hours of preparation, just joking ladies we all now it takes five days! However, the compliments must be sincere and original. If a lady is busty, you can bet she gets a lot of guys staring at her cleavage or making some sly comment. Don't be that guy, be original and thoughtful!

2. Chivalry isn't Dead...Just Dying

-Being a gentlemen is seriously an underrated but much noticed trait that women appreciate. Although, we now have females who carry knives in their pocketbooks and with shows like Snapped, a show about women going crazy and killing their husbands, modern women seem dangerous and aggressive. Rest assured, there are still sweet and precious ladies around that like having a strong, capable guy around. If you see a lady carrying heavy groceries, offer help, hold open doors, let women sit if there are no other seats available. Let women know that you are capable of taking care of them and show that your thinking of them first!

3. Find a Tie!

-Women don't mind seeing guys in sweats, actually many of them prefer a guy with sweats or basketball shorts with a wife beater on, just as long as your body doesn't look like a smoker on a diet, go eat bro! However, a women also wants to be with a guy that can dress the part and has a versatile wardrobe. Obama is making the thugged-out look a little passé. Also, women do love guys in suits, looks more professional and clean. Just show her that you can go to church after going to the club!

4. Engage

-No, I'm not telling you to drop to one bony knee and ask for her hand in marriage! Show her that you're interested in her and not just interested in getting inside of her! Talk about things other than just chilling in your bedroom and take her outside the house.The problem is that  ladies like going out and most guys just like sitting around; fight the urge and treat her like a friend without benefits sometime. Call to say hello and chat, ask how her day went,really listen and most of all pay attention, because when she asks you, "What did I just say?" You might want to have a response ready!

5. Pop the Question

-Again, I'm not talking about marriage but the other question. If you do the previous four things correctly then you know what question I'm referring to here! No....Here it is, ask her to come over to watch a movie! We all know what that question means, you both know that watching the movie isn't important but it's a nice way of saying come over and lay in my bed with the lights out! Just make sure you have a wide range of genres to choose from, you wouldn't want her to come over just for her to say you have nothing she wants to watch. Damn, guess it's extenze commericals for your sex-less night!

Do not's for Guys:

1.Skip ESPN

-Very important when just getting to know any female. Fellas, most women don't like sports! Shocking right! Many women will sit and watch for a little because your interested and she doesn't want to complain, she's been following the rules of the game! There are only but so many angles they can show the big play from last night, or interview the same three players, and the top ten plays will be the same all day long, it gets boring! Of course it doesn't, however, your trying to bag a cutie here and that inevitable, "Why are we still watching this!" will eventually come out. If your in a relationship already, it's just one of those things that has to be compromised!

2. Be Cool

-That's right; be cool and don't sweat her! One big turnoffs for most women is having a guy always up under her arms, invading her personal space. The hot summer months is enough to make anyone sweat and she doesn't need you sweating her too! Learn how to be a man, have some backbone, stand for something! Women take advantage of guys like this. Here you are thinking you're being caring but it isn't the case. She'll ask you at three in the morning to go and get ice cream and walk it five miles to her house! Once your categorized as overly nice you'll be expected to do it, remember someone has to wear the pants!

3. The Lone Wolf

-Don't always bring your boys to places she invites you too, heck, don't even mention you have friends. What typically happens is this: guys will end up choosing to go out with their boys instead of spending time with their lady. Nothing wrong with going out and doing what guys do and talking about whats guys talk about but you have to find balance. The song "Call Tyrone" comes to mind, women will get fed up with always playing second fiddle.Moreover, if you do decide to go out with your friends and your lady interest, for the love of Black Jesus, don't wear the same outfit in different colors, it's not cool, at all!

4. Rub One Out


-Women have the uncanny ability to sniff out horny guys. They can tell by the way you look at them what you're after. A quick glance is flattering, but staring screams, "I'm a pervert on the loose! There's a big difference between flirting and coming off as a creeper. You must find ways to take your mind off of doing the nasty. You ever see guys turn their heads when a girl walks by? Most guys will take a few steps past her and then turn around, like nobody sees them. If you're going to stare, man up and speak. Tip: Wear dark shades and you can stare all you want and be unnoticed!


5. Mr. Clean

-Don't engage in weird cheater behavior. Things like having texts at four in the morning and all of a sudden you have to use the restroom? Seems suspicious! Women aren't as stupid and naive as most men think. Phone calls or texts at certain times of the night are not good signs of building a trustworthy relationship. In fact, any call/text after 2am is classified as a booty call. She'll wonder why you have so many women friends, when most men will claim of having none or maybe one.

There you have it, rules of the game, for both men and women. Remember, feelings are fleeting and relationships sink, a bright future can be drowned out by past mistakes and present disappointments.The weather is nice, go out and mingle if your single and be on the lookout for your next winter time boo. If you don't want to be alone this upcoming cuffing season follow these rules and you'll be in love or lust sooner than you know!